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Friday, August 15, 2014

Summer in a Flash

Playing at the Park
 Hard to believe that this summer is already wrapping up.  Becca made a summer bucket list and we did a lot of things on the list.. and more.  Here are just a few

Visits from Grandma


Ice Blocking with Friends


 Piano Camp





RV Vacation

Waterslides/Camping

Birthdays


Park Lunches


Water Fight

Swimming in the Yard Sale Pool we bought

More Birthdays - And Ordination

Family Love and Lazy Days

4th of July Backyard ATV


Climbing to new Heights

BBQ

Swimming in a Pint Size Personal "Pool"

Laughs

Doorbell Ditching Adventures


Green Smoothie Moustaches

Visiting Grandma and Grandpa

Alphabet Cookies



Cheer Camp

Girls Camp/Youth Conference/EFY

Playing House


Princess Fun with Friends



I don't want to live my life wishing away my days, but I'll have to admit that I am definitely ready for a little more "school days" structure at our house.

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Monday, June 30, 2014

Ancestor Collage

Yesterday I was asked to share a short presentation to the primary children about family history.   It was hard to decide what to share as I have felt inspired by the lives and stories of my ancestors.  I never met my maternal grandmother "Dessie Kristine" because she passed away before I was born.  But thankfully my mom told me many stories about her and I have always felt a connection with her because we share the same middle name.  As we have named each of our children, part of their name includes a piece of their heritage so they're "hearts can be turned to their fathers" too. 

Sunday, June 22, 2014

Puzilla - Finding My Roots and Branches

I have a new addiction.... Family History.  For years I have enjoyed finding the stories and pictures of my ancestors, (nealfamilyhistory.blogspot.com) recording my own  personal history and interviewing relatives to gather more information, but after a frustrating experience at the family history center about 8 years ago searching for family names to do ordinance work for, I stopped looking for family names to do ordinances for at the temple, because it seemed too hard.  But Susannah (one of my ancestors) has been on my mind ever since.  I searched through many microfiche searching for her parents and never found anything on that frustrating day years ago.
Several weeks ago I decided to start trying again.  After watching a 2 minute tutorial about Puzilla, switched my focus to looking for Susannah's descendants.  I discovered that she had 5 other children and have since identified 10 of my relatives that I can complete ordinance work for at the temple.  It fills me with emotion each time I find a new relative to do temple work for and I am eager to start involving my children so they can feel the same blessings.  I love this statement by Elder Quentin L. Cook in last general conference.
"The eternally significant blessing of uniting our own families is almost beyond comprehension."

Jared's mom came up to visit for a few weeks and I was able to transcribe a cassette tape of her great aunt relaying some life experiences about Jared's grandma.  It filled me with gratitude for the peace the gospel brings as I heard of the troublesome family life she experienced before accepting the gospel and reflected on the blessings that her posterity can now enjoy because they have gospel truths and a living prophet's counsel to protect them from their youth.  I love the new features on familysearch.org that allow you to upload pictures and stories.  When I need a dose of gratitude, I read from some of the life histories posted there and remember the challenges and sacrifices made by those who have gone before me. 

When I read of Phoebe who was the mother of 14 children, and think I can rise to the challenge of caring for just six. 

When I read of Emily who died at age 40 leaving a large family behind, I am grateful for my good health. 

When I read of Gedske whose parents died when she was just 14, I am grateful that my father's life was spared during his challenging illness years ago and my parents are only a phone call away to receive counsel or guidance from.  What a blessing they are to my children as they've been able to spend some one on one time with them this summer!
When I read of Caroline whose teenagers died of cholera, I feel grateful that my children are still all with me. 
When I read of Kristina who left her homeland of Sweden to travel to new land with a foreign language so that she could complete the temple work for her deceased mother, I feel grateful that the temple is only 45 minutes away, and my family is close by.

"We enjoy the best days of our lives because of the past struggles of our ancestors."

Friday, June 13, 2014

A lot of Birthday Cake

 Alyssa has been super excited for her birthday this year.  To simplify things, we just had a family party.  Alyssa was delighted to wear her new sparkly outfit to the park,  She asks me to play piano with her more than any of the kids, so I made her a piano cake.  She especially liked the Kit Kats.




 


The candles don't show it... but Jacob will be ordained to a deacon this Sunday.  I recently found some family names to do temple work for and am looking forward to taking him to do some baptisms for our own ancestors next week.

Water Fight







 The boys invited some friends over for a backyard water fight.


 Alyssa went to her friend's birthday pool party and was especially excited about the little paper umbrella party favor.




The Truth about Vacations :) OR : (

 Jared's mom came to visit in her RV and we spent a couple of nights at Downata Resort.  The weather was perfect and my favorite part was going on the waterslides with the older kids. The fenced in horseshoe pit was a perfect place to play some rounds of Bocci.

Alyssa loved playing the sand outside our camper.   I'd like to say that it was the best vacation ever... but the truth is that for me
A day of stress(packing and prep) + 2 nights with poor rest = A mom who's a mess!

Alyssa left her shoes at home and unpacked her swimsuit from her bag the day before we left. I let it (and other little issues) stress me more than I should have. We had plans for another trip to Bear Lake this weekend, but revamped them and decided to stay closer to home where we can sleep in our own beds and not worry about the safety of our little wanderers.  I love seeing the kids reminisce about the good times we had after the vacation, but whenever I approach a vacation with the family on the calendar I tend to get a case of "Vacation Depression."  Maybe next time if I change my mindset and think of it as a"Service Project" I'll be less disappointed with the results.